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Secrets of Enlightened Living: 7 Virtues of Life

Inspiration, Motivation, Stories - Shubham Varshney - September 21, 2018

Motivation

This post is not on anyone’s traveling story, it belongs to a category that has name motivation. Last July, I had a good read, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, and from there I found a plot, 7 virtues of life. By following them, sincerely and with all the dedication, one can achieve enlightenment in living.

A fable about Enlightening

The Monk Who Sold his Ferrari by Robin Sharma, is just a boon in the field of motivation. When I told people that I am reading this book, they just said they had earlier than ‘me’. And very few are there who just said: “not a good one”. No problem everyone has their own point of view or favorite genre. So I just gave it, a try and found very amazing.

Peace

Basically, it is a story of a guy who once was a very rich and well-professional Lawyer and thereafter he sold out all his belongings and marched towards India, the world of Meditation and the world of Peace. He found his Nirvana in a fictional place, Sivana and there he found a community of sages. They taught him every single-to-piece lessons of life. They taught him 7 virtues of life.

The story of these 7 virtues of Life

These all 7 virtues can easily understandable after this story, as a sage of Sivana did in the book. The story starts as 

Try to imagine that you are sitting in the middle of a magnificent, lush, green garden at the bank of a seashore. This garden is fully filled with the most spectacular and heart-warming flowers, that you have ever seen in your life. The environment is supremely tranquil and peaceful. You are savoring the sensual delights of this garden and feeling as if you have all the time in the world to enjoy this natural oasis.

As you look around you see that in the center of this pretty imagined garden, stands a towering red lighthouse. Six stories high. Suddenly, the calmness of the disturbed by a crackling of the door, as the door creakingly opens at the base of the lighthouse.

The person which moved out from it was a sumo-wrestler, who casually wanders in the garden. Almost naked instead of pink-twisted wire cable covering on his private parts. You see that as this Sumo-wrestler starts to move around in the garden and he finds, a shiny gold stopwatch (don’t know who the hell kept this stopwatch there), he slips it on and falls to the ground and rendered unconscious and lies there for some moment, silent and still.

As you just figured it out that this wrestler lost his livelihood, he awakens, perhaps stirred by the fragrance of some fresh yellow roses blooming nearby. Electrified, the wrestler jumps on his feet and startled by what he sees. Alongside the green garden, he observes a long winding path full of millions of diamonds. Something directs wrestler to take that path and path leads him down the road of everlasting joy and bliss.

What actually are they 7 virtues of life?

This magical fable just weaved of some basic and important symbols which are the ultimate virtues of life. At this point, it is obvious to yelling out “just tell me what they 7 virtues of life are”. These are fragmented in the below list, each symbol with its virtue of enlightenment living. When I was at the point of completing this magical fable, I made up my mind that I am going to share this with people.

Although I knew that by keeping these all virtues in practice, one may attain bliss in life. But keeping them in practice is the whole sort of hardness.

SymbolVirtue
The Garden     Garden Your Mind

Lighthouse
Follow your purpose

Sumo-wrestler
Practice Kaizen

Wire cable
Live with Discipline

Gold stopwatch
Respect your Time

Blooming Roses
Selflessly serve others

 The Path of diamond
Embrace the present

A very creative mind sewed 7 elements of joyful life very beautifully. Each symbol has its own virtue.

Master Your Mind

Master Your Mind

That glooming garden was used for the mind. That greenery of garden indicates the peacefulness of the mind. We all somewhere heard that a human mind is as expandable as the garden’s greenery. So in the book, there are various steps, which shows the path by which one can nurture the mind as a garden.

“Feed your mind with the most delightful treasures and boundless riches, and make it as lavish as a garden full of flowers”

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Follow Purpose

Follow Your Purpose

I have seen many people who are living their life at the below level of happy and also heard cursing their destiny. But the problem is not the destiny, the problem is they don’t follow their purpose and even many don’t know for what they are in their livelihood.

Here the lighthouse in the middle of a garden, this lighthouse tells that follow your purpose and keep an eye on the surroundings. Alike the lighthouse does.

There is a very famous quote “the purpose of life is a life of purpose”. Yes, it might be sounding like a tongue-twister, but it is a mantra of a meaningful life.

Book taught me, just make a goal and try to make every single second of life worthy, which can take you to your goal.

Kaizen

Practice Kaizen

Let me tell you, this virtue is most affected me and I am really trying my best to keep it in my day-to-day practices.

I know, some of you may be wondering that what the heck this Kaizen is. This noun has a meaning “a Japanese business philosophy of continuous improvement of working and personal efficiency”.

And as you see, it is derived from Japanese. Sumo’s from Japan keeps improving their fighting practices through practices daily in their life.

In the book, there are many techniques by continuously following them, one can become master of own life. And the practice that gives me instant results is ‘do the things you fear’.

discipline

The Power of Discipline

The former Prime Minister of United Kingdom and a writer, Winston Churchill said: “As long as we have faith in our own cause and an unconquerable will to win, victory will not be denied us”.

As in this mysterious fable, that nine feet tall Sumo wrestler is naked, except that pink wire cable covering his private parts. That wire cable has a lesson which taught me the power of self-mastery and self-government.

Have you ever seen a wire cable from inside? If you, then there you see thin-weak wires placed one on top of the others making the cable, stronger and tougher. That is the Discipline, we have to maintain in life.

Start to keep collecting things that do oath to be done and taken the last breath of that work. These are the small things, which will make you bolder, stronger and toughest.

Time

Respect Your Time (Others Also)

Sir Isaac Pitman, the one who developed a shorthand for the first time, said this “Well arranged time is the surest mark of a well-arranged mind”.

It is often to think that this virtue might be related to that shiny gold stopwatch in the fable. The stopwatch on which that huge Sumo wrestler slips-on.

I have remembered that how my father keeps telling me (till now) to make a daily activity chart and follow it. Though he also not able to follow it, he tries his every best for it and I like that part of him.

There is a very old saying “Waqt rahte Akal aa jayegi (will be stale with time)”, I must say it is very true.

Time is our most precious commodity and it is non-renewable and those who use time wisely are rewarded with rich, productive, and satisfying lives.

Serve Others

Selflessly Serve Others

Like the flowers are doing in the fable. They are serving to that Sumo wrestler, who falls-off on and just awaken. They are making him comfortable from his suffer and pain.

This whole world is balanced if there are positive powers then (I think) there are negative too. We all have the connection with the people with whom we meet and get close to them. Everything that lives, lives not alone, not for itself.

Serve people those who are in great need and I also not saying that give all the things that you have and live rest of the life as a beggar but we think if we start doing daily acts of kindness, it will end up with adding kindness into our journal.

Present Moment

Embrace the Present

In the book, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, there are many things which describes this but it is my one of those favorite things. I love to remain at present, it is my good or bad, but I quickly get over through the past.

I just don’t want to get stick to a thing for millions of years, in some case I like to be glued like to my daydreaming(s).

No one could ever be able to change the past, just try to embrace present, in the way like the diamonds on the path do (in the fable).

I really think that either I am motivated or overly-motivated but the good thing is that ‘motivated’. Also, very often my mom calls it ‘over-confidence’ and I mumble to myself only ‘at least having confidence’. Just give a dam fuck to the world and live in that tune of the air.

Last but not least, give a try to ‘The Monk who sold his Ferrari’.

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Questions To Ask a Successful Person

Motivation - Shubham Varshney - June 14, 2018

Success, it is something which I think every person wants in life. Success is a thing which decides the reputation of a person in society. It is more to oxymoron that it comes with ease. To consider a person successful, it is must to count its struggle and achievements. Wealth accumulation, lifestyle option, and social impact are the parameters by which a person to be called a successful person.

I have seen many people, including me, finding different ways to get success. But there are no ways of it, only a hard work can give us that ‘Success’. Tricks can only give us money but a hard work always pays off. Our hard work can be an inspiration for others and one should always remain in the quest to make it an inspiration.

On a day, I was scrolling on my LinkedIn feeds (Shubham Varshney) and I came across to an article of Forbes. And the article was on Questions to ask a successful person. So in post, I going to share my own written questions which I asked some successful persons around me and their answers. The first person with whom I played JAM was my Father, who has done everything in his life and given everything to his children and also made himself a man-of-honors. The next was my Boss, he has also achieved a good value in the society and contributing his best.

Questions to Ask a Successful Person

Q.1 Do you believe in God? If yes, then how it manifest to your soul?

A- This question I asked because I too much believe in God and I just wanted to know whether a successful person also does or not. And the Answer was yes.

My dad says the continuous music given by the heart is the sole evidence of the God. Even the joint working of the senses in the manifestation of the God.

On the very same page my boss said that the controlling of the gender, this balanced world is all which can make you believe in God.

Q.2 What would you like to do in your free time? And how you get habitat to it?

“In the life of a successful person there is no free time” said my boss. And if he gets some free time would like to do more work, just to keep pace with his daily life routine.

I would like to tell you people that behind my sanctimonious believes my parents, especially my father has played a major role. He keeps telling me that the God is present everywhere and I saw that whenever he gets some free time, he starts chanting the name of almighty. There is no way to get habitat to it ‘It is always in the mind’.

Q.3 In your lethargic time, how you keep your mind in a positive way?

Someone has beautifully said that a time is lethargic or peaceful is only depends on beliefs. If our goals are set then there is no time to feel low and it is not possible that the time remains same all the time. Ups and downs are the two features which show that we are living. So, whenever you feel low, keep telling yourself or push yourself in the belief that “yes, we can do it”.

I would like to share one thing also that I loved very much. This very question I asked one of my closest friends and she answered it very beautifully “I often do daydreaming and my dreams make me very positive and energetic”.

Q.4 Does it really matters to you that what will people say if you take any step?

“Not really” was the answer given by both the person. If the step must have to be taken for the betterment of many then it doesn’t matter what will people say. And in my opinion, this is the wisest action taken by anyone, because if someone or many will enjoy the life by our step then it has to be taken.

Q.5 If anyone is rude to you what will be your gift for them?

I must be proud of my father, the answer that he gave to me is “first of all, I would try to calm down the situation and if it doesn’t work then I will try to move out from the situation very politely”. This I think must be the best gift for them. Ignoring negative people also a wise step.

Q.6 What time or what moment, you consider a person successful?

This question is really best answered by my boss and fortunately it is inscribed in my mind. He says “Success is more of a journey, it has no particular point. The journey to do something is called a success and those who keep their pace up in that journey are the successful persons”. Really I was stunned by his answer.

Acquiring basic needs and maintaining a lifestyle are also the job of a successful person. As my father is ‘de-facto theist’ he said that one who keeps himself more closely to the almighty is a successful person.

Q.7 What would you like to call a person who loves reading books? And if I ask you to live in a library will approach the books?

The answers were they love a person who read the books because they have that patience which comes after a great effort. The one who reads the book has a most creative mind and huge living mind. And yes they approach the books but when it comes to the work they will leave at that very moment.

“Putting the things at the right place in life is the thing that matters” this is the best line that I got from my boss.

Also, I would like to add one more quote which I got from my friend when she sees me while reading books.

“I thought of reading because it seems to be a good hobby but at next very moment, I feel like, no this is not my job. So it requires a lot of courage to read books. Hats off to readers”.

Q.8 If you ask to hire someone, what will be the qualities you want in that person?

“Will to learn is the only quality that I want in that person. Either you are a leader or a follower.” this was the answer given by my boss (CEO of the company).

He also said that a good follower becomes a good leader, it only matters that how much you are willing to learn.

These are all the questions which I will ask a successful person whenever I get the chance to meet a successful person. To become a successful person one must be a very peaceful and calm and these are the things for which I have to live.

Make your list of questions and bursting out of your curiosity ask them to a successful person when you meet them.

(All the photographs are taken from Google)

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Daydreaming

Motivation - Shubham Varshney - February 3, 2018

DaydreamingActually, this is a word given to a mental activity done by people who usually found themselves at their safest place or doing some arduous activity. On a straight note, I am a daydreamer (proudly), this is my panacea of getting bored and actually at some points we all are daydreamers. We all daydream in different ways like me in my way of dreaming about finding myself in some heroic activities.

This mental action has a specific definition which is given by Wikipedia that is “Daydreaming is a short-term detachment from one’s immediate surroundings, during which a person’s contact with reality is blurred and partially substituted by a visionary fantasy, especially one of happy. It all imagined as coming to pass and experienced while awake”. Allow me to take you more deeper in this wor(l)d.

There is a saying that I love the most “Dreams can only be seen with open eyes, what you see while sleeping are nightmares”. Finding ourselves in some activities that boosted enthusiasm is the most awesome feeling that one can get (my opinion). Seeing an illusory vision come true is work as the source of confidence, it provides activeness over some jaded feelings.

Daydreaming is not a bad thing, most of the studies done on it and among them almost sound good. They say that there is the legion number of people out there is this world who often do daydreaming. And sometimes I found myself in my own illusory world too.

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As per the law, everything which has some good effects must have some bad effects also. Sometimes I forget to do the task given to me or the task which is less important to me while daydreaming. Sometimes while having an imaginary trip, I move ahead from the place which I have to visit for a work (but in rare cases).

Yes, while mind-wandering I can do trekking on any of the largest peaks of this world (those which I know) or I can find myself at any monument regardless of country (continent too). Also, most of the studies say that people do daydreaming when they found themselves more secure or when they know that they could do the agendum easily.

Those who are addicted to this sweet cone of Ice-cream (for me), have the most active mind and they owned a word doer, “the study says that not me”.   If you asked me to write about it. I can write on it whole for a whole day or more. There is a Japanese proverb that vision without action is daydream and action without vision is a nightmare. It is right saying that problems have their own solutions within it.

Allow me to give you all, some examples of my favorite mind-wanderings. I love to do this it is a way due to which I could rejuvenate. I do this for my sake only, on a frequent note I find myself either playing drums in a very inordinate crowd or playing football and on the verge of kicking a ball for the matching goal. And sometimes playing DJ either at Tomorrowland or at Ultra Music Festival (these two are the biggest music festivals happened on earth), also people were enjoying my beats amazingly. They are dancing on my beats and having much fun.

Actually, these are the dreams which I want to live in real also, but till then this is how do I get to work. I have always liked quite people, who know if they’re dancing with their partner or if they’re carrying the weight of the world. And believe or not there are few known people with whom I can do mind-wandering, mostly with one of my best friends

About six years ago, on a summer vacation, I went my home from my boarding college, due to some family business reasons I had to ride my bike 40 km/side to the upside of town, district every day. And in that period of time, I usually went at any mirage created by my mind and literally, I wandered in them.

I have visited some exotic beaches, I have done paragliding, I have done snorkeling and I have participated in some crusade also. Just to quench my bug by doing some noble cause for the society (I have done all of these things while I rode my bike). And when I come back from my illusive world to the real world I honestly, didn’t have any clue that how I have passed all the obstacles, who must have come in my way. This has really happened to me or this works on this that it was clear in my mind that I could ride a bike in any of the conditions.

From the last two years, I am daydreaming that I like a messenger of God and I have to do all the wrongs things correct so that the proceedings of the world going on. Most of the daydreaming I focus on things that might happen in the future. I plan ahead, I think about outcomes of decisions, I think about what I might do in the next coming life or might in the next coming week(s).

Often, I think about my life in the more distant future, considering whom I might marry or where I might live. Precisely, it gives me the solution that what might going to happen next and sometimes I decrypt it wrongly and sometimes dart goes bulls-eye. In the end, I just wanted to tell you that I loved it, it is like in my veins. Stay connected with the people near to you and to the people who are in your creation and also with the God too.

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