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Questions To Ask a Successful Person

Success, it is something which I think every person wants in life. Success is a thing which decides the reputation of a person in society. It is more to oxymoron that it comes with ease. To consider a person successful, it is must to count its struggle and achievements. Wealth accumulation, lifestyle option, and social impact are the parameters by which a person to be called a successful person.

I have seen many people, including me, finding different ways to get success. But there are no ways of it, only a hard work can give us that ‘Success’. Tricks can only give us money but a hard work always pays off. Our hard work can be an inspiration for others and one should always remain in the quest to make it an inspiration.

On a day, I was scrolling on my LinkedIn feeds (Shubham Varshney) and I came across to an article of Forbes. And the article was on Questions to ask a successful person. So in post, I going to share my own written questions which I asked some successful persons around me and their answers. The first person with whom I played JAM was my Father, who has done everything in his life and given everything to his children and also made himself a man-of-honors. The next was my Boss, he has also achieved a good value in the society and contributing his best.

Questions to Ask a Successful Person

Q.1 Do you believe in God? If yes, then how it manifest to your soul?

A- This question I asked because I too much believe in God and I just wanted to know whether a successful person also does or not. And the Answer was yes.

My dad says the continuous music given by the heart is the sole evidence of the God. Even the joint working of the senses in the manifestation of the God.

On the very same page my boss said that the controlling of the gender, this balanced world is all which can make you believe in God.

Q.2 What would you like to do in your free time? And how you get habitat to it?

“In the life of a successful person there is no free time” said my boss. And if he gets some free time would like to do more work, just to keep pace with his daily life routine.

I would like to tell you people that behind my sanctimonious believes my parents, especially my father has played a major role. He keeps telling me that the God is present everywhere and I saw that whenever he gets some free time, he starts chanting the name of almighty. There is no way to get habitat to it ‘It is always in the mind’.

Q.3 In your lethargic time, how you keep your mind in a positive way?

Someone has beautifully said that a time is lethargic or peaceful is only depends on beliefs. If our goals are set then there is no time to feel low and it is not possible that the time remains same all the time. Ups and downs are the two features which show that we are living. So, whenever you feel low, keep telling yourself or push yourself in the belief that “yes, we can do it”.

I would like to share one thing also that I loved very much. This very question I asked one of my closest friends and she answered it very beautifully “I often do daydreaming and my dreams make me very positive and energetic”.

Q.4 Does it really matters to you that what will people say if you take any step?

“Not really” was the answer given by both the person. If the step must have to be taken for the betterment of many then it doesn’t matter what will people say. And in my opinion, this is the wisest action taken by anyone, because if someone or many will enjoy the life by our step then it has to be taken.

Q.5 If anyone is rude to you what will be your gift for them?

I must be proud of my father, the answer that he gave to me is “first of all, I would try to calm down the situation and if it doesn’t work then I will try to move out from the situation very politely”. This I think must be the best gift for them. Ignoring negative people also a wise step.

Q.6 What time or what moment, you consider a person successful?

This question is really best answered by my boss and fortunately it is inscribed in my mind. He says “Success is more of a journey, it has no particular point. The journey to do something is called a success and those who keep their pace up in that journey are the successful persons”. Really I was stunned by his answer.

Acquiring basic needs and maintaining a lifestyle are also the job of a successful person. As my father is ‘de-facto theist’ he said that one who keeps himself more closely to the almighty is a successful person.

Q.7 What would you like to call a person who loves reading books? And if I ask you to live in a library will approach the books?

The answers were they love a person who read the books because they have that patience which comes after a great effort. The one who reads the book has a most creative mind and huge living mind. And yes they approach the books but when it comes to the work they will leave at that very moment.

“Putting the things at the right place in life is the thing that matters” this is the best line that I got from my boss.

Also, I would like to add one more quote which I got from my friend when she sees me while reading books.

“I thought of reading because it seems to be a good hobby but at next very moment, I feel like, no this is not my job. So it requires a lot of courage to read books. Hats off to readers”.

Q.8 If you ask to hire someone, what will be the qualities you want in that person?

“Will to learn is the only quality that I want in that person. Either you are a leader or a follower.” this was the answer given by my boss (CEO of the company).

He also said that a good follower becomes a good leader, it only matters that how much you are willing to learn.

These are all the questions which I will ask a successful person whenever I get the chance to meet a successful person. To become a successful person one must be a very peaceful and calm and these are the things for which I have to live.

Make your list of questions and bursting out of your curiosity ask them to a successful person when you meet them.

(All the photographs are taken from Google)

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DaydreamingActually, this is a word given to a mental activity done by people who usually found themselves at their safest place or doing some arduous activity. On a straight note, I am a daydreamer (proudly), this is my panacea of getting bored and actually at some points we all are daydreamers. We all daydream in different ways like me in my way of dreaming about finding myself in some heroic activities.

This mental action has a specific definition which is given by Wikipedia that is “Daydreaming is a short-term detachment from one’s immediate surroundings, during which a person’s contact with reality is blurred and partially substituted by a visionary fantasy, especially one of happy. It all imagined as coming to pass and experienced while awake”. Allow me to take you more deeper in this wor(l)d.

There is a saying that I love the most “Dreams can only be seen with open eyes, what you see while sleeping are nightmares”. Finding ourselves in some activities that boosted enthusiasm is the most awesome feeling that one can get (my opinion). Seeing an illusory vision come true is work as the source of confidence, it provides activeness over some jaded feelings.

Daydreaming is not a bad thing, most of the studies done on it and among them almost sound good. They say that there is the legion number of people out there is this world who often do daydreaming. And sometimes I found myself in my own illusory world too.

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As per the law, everything which has some good effects must have some bad effects also. Sometimes I forget to do the task given to me or the task which is less important to me while daydreaming. Sometimes while having an imaginary trip, I move ahead from the place which I have to visit for a work (but in rare cases).

Yes, while mind-wandering I can do trekking on any of the largest peaks of this world (those which I know) or I can find myself at any monument regardless of country (continent too). Also, most of the studies say that people do daydreaming when they found themselves more secure or when they know that they could do the agendum easily.

Those who are addicted to this sweet cone of Ice-cream (for me), have the most active mind and they owned a word doer, “the study says that not me”.   If you asked me to write about it. I can write on it whole for a whole day or more. There is a Japanese proverb that vision without action is daydream and action without vision is a nightmare. It is right saying that problems have their own solutions within it.

Allow me to give you all, some examples of my favorite mind-wanderings. I love to do this it is a way due to which I could rejuvenate. I do this for my sake only, on a frequent note I find myself either playing drums in a very inordinate crowd or playing football and on the verge of kicking a ball for the matching goal. And sometimes playing DJ either at Tomorrowland or at Ultra Music Festival (these two are the biggest music festivals happened on earth), also people were enjoying my beats amazingly. They are dancing on my beats and having much fun.

Actually, these are the dreams which I want to live in real also, but till then this is how do I get to work. I have always liked quite people, who know if they’re dancing with their partner or if they’re carrying the weight of the world. And believe or not there are few known people with whom I can do mind-wandering, mostly with one of my best friends

About six years ago, on a summer vacation, I went my home from my boarding college, due to some family business reasons I had to ride my bike 40 km/side to the upside of town, district every day. And in that period of time, I usually went at any mirage created by my mind and literally, I wandered in them.

I have visited some exotic beaches, I have done paragliding, I have done snorkeling and I have participated in some crusade also. Just to quench my bug by doing some noble cause for the society (I have done all of these things while I rode my bike). And when I come back from my illusive world to the real world I honestly, didn’t have any clue that how I have passed all the obstacles, who must have come in my way. This has really happened to me or this works on this that it was clear in my mind that I could ride a bike in any of the conditions.

From the last two years, I am daydreaming that I like a messenger of God and I have to do all the wrongs things correct so that the proceedings of the world going on. Most of the daydreaming I focus on things that might happen in the future. I plan ahead, I think about outcomes of decisions, I think about what I might do in the next coming life or might in the next coming week(s).

Often, I think about my life in the more distant future, considering whom I might marry or where I might live. Precisely, it gives me the solution that what might going to happen next and sometimes I decrypt it wrongly and sometimes dart goes bulls-eye. In the end, I just wanted to tell you that I loved it, it is like in my veins. Stay connected with the people near to you and to the people who are in your creation and also with the God too.

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